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Hey — I kicked off a thread yesterday about Avatars, asking CM members to rethink the "Dicklet in Cage" stereotype and look for designs with more…

member_9a1e05c0fe 3 Sept 2026 #1

Hey — I kicked off a thread yesterday about Avatars, asking CM members to rethink the “Dicklet in Cage” stereotype and look for designs with more imagination, storytelling flair, and style.

Lots of us here already have lovely, creative avatars, but let’s be honest: most aren’t quite there yet. Apologies!

You can check out my full thoughts in that thread linked below. It also features a helpful link from @MaleChastityNow pointing to where you can create your own avatars. Keep in mind the file size must be 50 Kb or less for acceptance.

Many of you have likely grabbed an avatar online before, which is a pretty straightforward process. It’s not always perfectly legal, but if you’ve cropped part of whatever image you found and use it solely as your avatar, I’m confident no one will come after you… Lol! So go ahead with pre-made options if you’re up for it.

To show how simple it is to find good “avatar material” online, I put together over 50 avatars in under an hour. I’ve uploaded them here for your enjoyment or inspiration — feel free to take any of them!

I’d appreciate a quick note in the thread if you claim one so someone else doesn’t steal it from me.

We’re offering these 50+ images, and perhaps one will catch your eye depending on your chastity lifestyle (sub, Domme, sissy, etc.). I’m posting them across five consecutive posts since there are too many for a single entry. Just right-click to download…

Have fun, take what you want, or just get inspired!