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There is plenty of discussion across various threads regarding how long members stay locked, and it appears to me that many are only kept for brief…

member_0aadf1c391 3 Sept 2026 #1

There is plenty of discussion across various threads regarding how long members stay locked, and it appears to me that many are only kept for brief intervals. This brings up a few questions: How committed are they to chastity? Are they merely playing or being serious? What duration qualifies as serious commitment? And how many people enjoy extended lockups?

I currently have four submissives; each has already finished a 90-day period with absolutely no release, and one is approaching his two-year mark without any release.

So I want to issue a challenge to all those short-term participants: Agree to stay locked for 90 days with NO release during that entire time! Absolutely zero release for the full 90 days. Additionally, your keyholder can add extra time due to misbehavior or poor performance, extending your lockup.

One of my subs was initially set for an agreed-upon 90-day period, but his term actually lasted 14 months because additional time was added as punishment.

I wonder how serious many of these short-term players really are? Will they accept the challenge and what effect will it have on them emotionally? How will their attitude shift, and what thoughts will they have at the end?

There you have it! The challenge is out there. Who will take it up? 90 days, no release!

member_22ae65cbe4 3 Sept 2026 #2

I am serious about having fun. And having fun doesn't mean I need to be locked for 90 days...or more.