Female led relationships discussion

My Keyholder Wife agreed to put me in chastity if I lost 50 lbs. Additional orgasms would be granted for further weight loss. We started this weekend after meeting the goal, though it was a bit rough since KHW had to work Saturday. I ended up locked in the Bon 4 device. It wasn’t too hard once I figured it out, and I loved how my balls and scrotum felt stretched. She gave me chores like cleaning floors and made me wear sheer black lace panties with little red hearts as a maid outfit. Nipple teasing was intense before she left, leaving me in sensation overload. Most things exceeded expectations except the Bon 4; my testicles retreated through the ring three times until I finally accepted it.

I used the smallest ring size that allowed my testicles to pass through. Still about 100 lbs over weight with a fat mound behind my cock and balls, plus thick thighs making it harder. You could say I am high and tight? My right testicle sits very high and bolts for cover at the slightest touch, like a prairie dog spotting a hawk. Needless to say, I was crushed when she returned home.

I’d love your collective wisdom on options. The MM Jail Bird looks appealing; it seems easy to clean me and the device while wearing it. It should be much easier to put on than the Bon 4. KHW is reading A Keyholder’s Handbook for insight. She shocked me by suggesting a spiked device, which she liked when I showed her the jail bird version. I ordered sizing rings immediately.

Another issue is full-time wear. KHW noted the Bon 4 created a nice bulge but worried about appearing at work with an unnatural protrusion given my large thighs might push things out further. Can I find something comfortable for locking up and wearing all day? Or maybe opt to lock comfortably and just pop it on quickly when home?

Thanks for reading and sharing thoughts. KHW and I have more questions, but we can wait until the main issue is solved.