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I’m a relatively new member here at 52 years old, non passable sissy style. I rock one of DHGate’s shortest stainless steel chastity cages for good reason:)…

member_7c4f717dde 3 Sept 2026 #1

I’m a relatively new member here at 52 years old, non passable sissy style. I rock one of DHGate’s shortest stainless steel chastity cages for good reason:) . My wife holds the keys, and although she can be quite lenient at times, She definitely has Domme qualities. The cage features a permanently welded probe that stays relentlessly “in there”.

I adore wearing panties, bras, and nighties, often getting inspected during the day to ensure proper wear and check for excessive leaking. I maintain a modest wardrobe of intimate apparel that must stay in perfect condition under constant inspection. There is nothing quite like feeling my swollen balls gripped tightly by thongs or tight satin.

I spend much time chained up in bondage with nipple clamps, gagged, and blindfolded for an hour or more. During these sessions I might be whipped and beaten three or four times; it’s common to receive 150 or more lashings and strikes per session. I recall only one instance of taking a massive 200-lash whipping when I was at the peak of enjoying that kind of punishment. She owns a nylon cane, a rattan cane, a thick leather strap with large rivets, a nice leather belt (one of my old ones), and a vicious rubber paddle capable of making even the toughest among us break down and cry like girls:).

I have some disabilities but remain very mobile. I’ve undergone two back surgeries involving several thousand dollars worth of titanium implants. The resulting nerve damage and failed fusions have taken a significant toll on me, yet it is what it is, and I manage as best I can. One learns to live with such conditions or not; I chose not “give up” so that I may enjoy life while I am able.

Thanks for the peek around, it feels good to be here among my fellow kinkster’s.