Female led relationships discussion

A comedian once remarked that “in every partnership, one figure is always the cop and the other the offender.” He meant that one person constantly scolds the other. Then he added, “If you aren’t sure which role you play, you’re likely the offender.” Or so I recall; it was ages ago, prior to my discovery of this lifestyle. The thought has just resurfaced. As for me, if anyone’s curious, I’m invariably the cop!! My handcuff are waiting.