Female led relationships discussion

Hello everyone. I’m relatively new to the group and hoping for some inspiration. My wife stepped up as my keyholder a few months back, and it’s been wonderful. Our intimacy has improved greatly, and we’re both content. The problem is this: whenever I suggest something—like me wearing a strap-on with her, her using one on me, or me shaving her to fulfill my role—she’s always willing and enjoys them. However, I’m the one constantly proposing these ideas. It sometimes feels like I’m acting as the Dom while she just goes along for the ride. I want more of her input, driven by what she wants rather than what I suggest. I suspect there is a dominant woman or Goddess lurking within her; otherwise, she wouldn’t be so invested. I don’t want to dominate too heavily, but if I hold back, nothing changes. Actually, without my nudging, we might not enjoy chastity at all. Has anyone else experienced this? How did you manage it? I’d also like to hear from the women here. What is your experience with holding power and taking charge? Thanks in advance!