Female led relationships discussion

Hello, I have always been a vanilla person until I found my present partner roughly one and a half years back. We are cohabiting, and prior to this he had never spent more than a month in chastity. However, after being kept locked by me for three or four months, he entered an odd period of confusion—it seemed as though his libido dropped and he questioned who he was, even if he is undoubtedly a submissive. I lack other examples of people navigating a female-led BDSM lifestyle alongside my own, so I am hoping to find support from a seasoned domme eager to share her wisdom.

Cheers!