Female led relationships discussion

I reached the Mansion a few days back and was greeted with an abundance of sweet welcomes that can easily go to any girl’s head. But today, reality has kicked in, and I find myself wondering, “Oh crumbs, what am I doing here, and what will there be for me to discuss?” After all, it’s unlikely I’ll need a Cb6000 just for my own sake! So I have a question for you ladies out there who are doms to your husbands: What is the secret to making it last? It seems to me that I cannot really force my soon-to-be-a-maid husband into submission – I simply accept his gift of obedience and devotion. In return, I perform the duties expected of a dominant wife—and very happily so, I assure you. But in an almost 24/7 D/s dynamic like ours, will this be sufficient? I suppose my fear is that, within a year or two, I see myself working hard as the primary earner while Linda (my submissive hubbie) enjoys relative luxury, managing our small home and having a wonderful time. Who is the REAL dominant then, I wonder? I do not mean to sound too pessimistic; I am looking forward to it just as much as Linda does, but I would love your thoughts. Helen xx