Female led relationships discussion

I’d love to know if anyone else has had similar experiences or ideas. This year marks our tenth anniversary, and I’ve booked a short weekend trip abroad for us. Even though the date is still several months away, I’ve already made all the preparations (arranged for Her to have a day off work without her knowing, secured a babysitter for our daughter, and sorted out travel accommodations). One concern that’s come up is this: while my intention is purely good, the situation shares some traits with topping from the bottom. How do you prepare for a weekend getaway without influencing the KH too much? I’m providing the location, transport, and time together—which she might interpret as me pressuring her…