Female led relationships discussion

I’m still relatively new to this lifestyle. While the site has been great for helping me, I have questions and would appreciate input from people with real experience.

1. Many men and sissies in chastity post about their deep affection for their wife/mistress/master, often putting aside their own desires. Since they enjoy it so much, could you maintain a relationship if your partner didn’t want the same type of connection?
2. Have any dominant men or women ever felt uneasy about how much they demand from their submissives and what those subs give up? Has that level of control made you feel like you’re in a contractual arrangement rather than a loving partnership?
3. To build on my last point, for the submissives here: has taking on a submissive role with someone who truly dominates you changed your feelings about the relationship? Have you ever felt less loved or cared for and more like a servant? If anyone is sleeping in their own bed after sharing one before, or if physical contact was suddenly cut off even slightly, did that affect how you felt?
4. I want a straight answer to this: I’ve seen plenty online about forced feminization/forced sissification within chastity contexts. Does it actually happen? By “forced,” I don’t mean the guy wants to be feminine but also enjoys humiliation; I mean actual force, such as secretly administering female hormones or using blackmail threats. If it does occur, is it viewed as something a mistress/master can rightfully do, or is it considered wrong and risky?

That’s all for now. Sorry if my wording was clunky or came off the wrong way.

Thank you!