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Hello everyone, After my introduction in the Foyer section where I told you about how I discovered chastity, it’s time to tell how the journey is going on…

member_761317a854 4 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, After my introduction in the Foyer section where I told you about how I discovered chastity, it’s time to tell how the journey is going on so far! Let’s summarize how I got here for the ones too lazy to read my intro. I’m a 21 years old man, and I’ve always been attracted to the “femdom” world. So one day I finally decided to start my quest of woman who could dominate me in order to fulfill my long list of fantasies. Chastity was not one of them, I didn’t really know about it. Eventually I met someone who was interested to have her first experience with me. At first all she wanted was someone to do the chores at her apartment. On top of that, she wanted me not to masturbate but wasn’t really sure if I did or not. At some point she introduced me to chastity, and I decided to give it a try even if I wasn’t really sure it was what I expected from that relationship. So it has been roughly 3 months since my first introduction to chastity and I’m loving every second of it! Before I start, I want to add something I didn’t want to reveal before: I’m still virgin. I’m quite shy and since I’ve never told anyone about my private life, it can be difficult for me to reveal it here. For the moment my KH doesn’t know it and I don’t really plan to tell her. Ok, so let’s start: Basically, at the moment, our relationship is based on me doing the chores. I need to do them at least twice a week. That means cleaning every part of her apartment, doing her laundry and when she’s here (yes, she has the keys of my chastity cage and I have her apartment’s keys) cooking for her. When everything is in order and it is always true, I get to be released once a week. Recently she began to unlock me herself (she also wanted to lock me but I’m getting too excited when she tries it so she gave up for now), before that she used to only give me the key and I went to the bathroom to do my thing. It was a huge step for me, because it was the first “sexual act” we did and she’s also the first person to touch my penis. It was also a big step for her I think because before that she was always trying to keep this border between us, we were in a female led relationship but without involving sex. I believe that she is getting more and more used to my company and she’s feeling comfortable with taking down her defenses. I don’t call her mistress or anything of that kind, I simply call her by her own name and I think this is the key to our relationship. On top of that, she rarely give me straight orders. When I’m at her place, I know what to do and she’s like “Could you do that?” instead of “Do that!”. Don’t get me wrong, she knows she is the dominant one and she really acts like one. Anyway, she recently went on holydays for a week increasing my usual one week lockup to a two weeks one. And of course she didn’t tell me in advance, so it was quite a surprise for me when I found out! When she came back, we talked a lot about our relationship. She brought up the fact that we were different, I mean she is a 29 years old woman who is working in a company while I’m still studying at university. That did scare me a lot, knowing the fact we were just starting to experience some new things. But anyway she did say that for the moment she wanted to focus on her work and our relationship and see where it leads us. On a more pleasant side, I definitely know that she wants to take our relationship to the next level since we talked a lot about my limits. I didn’t give her a long list of limits since I don’t really want to restrain her from exploring her evil side with me! She told me to be ready to serve her new desires soon. So I’m really excited about whatever is going to happen, and I will try to keep you updated.