Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

Hi there! My spouse and I have been down this road before and really liked it. We’re a very content pair who love being together, but when chastity comes up along with the tasks involved, she’s not much of a fan. She isn’t big on standard intercourse so we don’t get as much use from each other in that regard; her preferences lean towards vibrators and oral pleasure. I bet many here can relate—she’s pretty straightforward/vanilla. That works for us though, because she tells it like it is.

We’ve experimented with chastity just between the two of us before, but she gets bored easily, hands over the key without much fuss, and feels stressed about it. A single day is no problem, but beyond that her interest fades. Also, she doesn’t have a particularly domineering nature. She’s quite pliable to persuasion; ultimately, it boils down to whether or not she cares enough.

I’m still debating if she truly loses interest or if she’s just too polite/kind-hearted. She tries hard not to cause me pain or put me in any real discomfort. HOWEVER… I have noticed her chuckling when she sees me handling myself or watching someone else take charge of my situation.

Right, let’s get back on track. We’re looking for a Key Holder specifically for me. This isn’t new territory for us; she liked having very little to do but enjoyed observing what demands were placed on me and how far I’d go to obey them. We’ve agreed to be open-minded regarding almost anything since we own quite the arsenal of toys. Mostly, it’s about me picking up these items hoping something will catch her eye.

Gender doesn’t matter for our Key Holder; creativity and reasonableness are what count. It might seem a bit distinct because we aren’t viewing this purely as a sexual dynamic—we’re mostly after fun! We look forward to hearing from potential candidates! This is somewhat like an earlier post I made, but the experiences have been rewarding!