Female led relationships discussion

I haven’t decided where to put this yet, so if it’s in the wrong spot, please guide me;) This is my opening post and addresses a question I’ve been pondering for some time. I’ve discussed it extensively with @LadyFedora, and we are eager to gather your thoughts. The topic at hand: For many individuals, anal play is deeply intertwined with the chastity lifestyle. In my brief stay here, numerous men have brought it up, and browsing the forums suggests that chaste men often enjoy it too. However, looking at myself or @LadyFedora as examples, we both engage in giving anal play to our submissives, yet we also passionately enjoy receiving it ourselves. This is a point I rarely hear from Mistresses/Dominas. It makes me wonder: Am I an exception, a unique Mistress who simply adores herself some anal play? Or are there others like us who just don’t mention it much? If so, why? Reflecting on my own preferences, I adore using anal toys on myself. I enjoy feeling plugged up while wearing a strapon with my sub. It turns me on to have him pleasure me anally with a dildo while he attends to me orally. How about you other Mistresses? Do you share this love for it? And to the submissive men here: Does this appeal to you, or does it make your Mistress seem less authoritative in your eyes? I look forward to reading your replies:) Mistress Lianne