Female led relationships discussion

Greetings everyone. I’m not entirely certain if this is the correct forum, but since our wives and partners deserve to be revered, I decided to post here about some recent emotions and changes. For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted my private, reserved Wife/Mistress/Keyholder to open up more and share her thoughts on how our relationship is changing. Without going over old ground (feel free to check my other posts), prolonged chastity and a lack of orgasm have become standard for me. Our dynamic has shifted toward an FLR structure; while our roles outside the bedroom mirror those inside, it isn’t too obvious to outsiders. I remain what I’ve always been—and want to be—capable of pursuing masculine activities when respectful of her schedule. She allows this, and I appreciate it greatly. She also lets me know if I’m overstepping. So we FINALLY discussed our dynamic directly. I had been fighting the urge toward the fetishes she knows affect me deeply…to a degree greater than where I was about one or two years into my initial chastity play nearly ten years ago…a time when she looked worried, fearing I might become a full-time crossdresser or lose interest in women (neither is true). I had been terrified that she would eventually explode and our harmony would shatter. She explained that people change, suggesting she has evolved too and enjoys what we have now. She encouraged me to GRADUALLY embrace my fetishes rather than resist them and share them with her (no, no desire to be Caitlin Jenner or a 24/7 sissy…not really “my thing”) and promised to guide me if I go too far. This eased my mind; I felt my already deep love for her grow stronger. Later, as we discussed next steps, I remarked, “That’s why we have wives!” She replied, “Then I need a wife.” Being the pig that I am, this turned me on. The conversation paused, and I texted her later: “You said you need a wife… well, I think I do my part as a ‘wife’ in and out of the bedroom pretty well so far, but will gladly try to improve and expand upon my role.” She responded simply with, “Get to it then,” accompanied by an eyes-heart smiley. This comment makes me wonder if she is latently bisexual, gradually hoping to shape me into a hybrid creature that satisfies her unspoken desire while preserving the masculinity she likes. She has never favored the rugged type. Anyway, I was surprised by her remark. She often says she shouldn’t have to list all her wants and needs; it’s my job to figure them out and fulfill them. While her ambiguity sometimes frustrates and worries me (fear that I might do something embarrassing for her), it also arouses me. Anyway, I had to share this. If anyone here—male or female—shares similar feelings with us, I would truly appreciate your comments. …and so the dynamic does seem to be evolving…I told her I will know if and when SHE physically pushes me forward into something deeper or newer that only then will I know for sure that she is truly engaged in this…sigh…the unknown. allaboutHer …thanks for listening.