Introductions discussion

Hi everyone! I’m a new member here. Please be kind.

I wanted to introduce myself by sharing an experience my fiancée had with me recently. I’ve posted this story before on another board (which turns out to have broken links and is far worse than this one!). Since many of you probably visit both sites, sorry if it feels like a repeat!

Here’s what happened: During Christmas, she gave me a small book called “The 12 Lays of Christmas”. She explained that each day I would discover something new waiting for me, and just like the classic carol, these things would pile up over time!

Naturally, I was thrilled yet slightly anxious when I opened the first page to read: “On the first day of Christmas my true domme punished me, with: 1 Ruined Orgasm!”

She began touching me, bringing me right to the edge. She teased me until she pushed me just over the limit—cutting off the climax as it happened. Frustrating, yes, but enjoyable too! I quickly realized this meant a ruined orgasm every day for twelve days straight!

On the second day, the note read: “On the second day of Christmas my true domme punished me, with: 2 nipple clamps and 1 ruined orgasm!” The nipple clamp devices were attached (it hurt!) and she used her hands again to skillfully bring me to that edge before pushing me over. Two days in a row, quite frustrating!

As the weeks progressed, the list grew… until Day 12, when I had to endure all of these:

• 12 thrusts in the ass (She used her strap-on for twelve rounds, then continued with many more as she came hard while fucking me)
• 11 hard canings
• 10 painful ball squeezes
• 9 minutes of flogging
• 8 pin wheel tracks (Using a watenberg wheel…she loved pressing it firmly into my skin each day, especially in sensitive spots!)
• 7 minutes of cropping
• 6 drips of candle wax
• 5 minute of teasing
• 4 willy spanks (Varied daily with cane/crop/hand etc)
• 3 ice cubes (Rubbed all over then left in sensitive places to melt!)
• 2 nipple clamps
• 1 ruined orgasm

My fiancée really enjoyed making the list as difficult as possible. From around Day 5, I was usually tied securely to the bed before the punishments started. I definitely developed a dislike for one particular punishment.

We had experienced all these things separately before, but she took this opportunity to push my limits—taking me right up against them on many days! The effects really added up, especially when items like “Painful ball squeezes” were intensified—I watched her smile and laugh while I genuinely wanted her to stop.

She also made(!) me sing the song each day, which added a bit of extra humiliation that she seemed to enjoy.

Here is the booklet:

If anyone reads this and wants more details, I can elaborate. Initially, I thought it was a very fun and sexy idea.

However, my fiancée decided that having one ruined orgasm daily wasn’t quite frustrating enough for her liking. Next time, she says I won’t be allowed to come at all—the concept of wearing my chastity cage every day has been proposed.

In conclusion—Feel free to let me know if you like the idea or have suggestions/improvements! My fiancée is also happy to answer questions directly. Hello and Happy New Year everyone! My experience with this punishment routine was quite memorable.