Introductions discussion

My social circle frowns upon a lot of things. I’ve always had an interest in femdom, chastity, and CBT but never really found the chance to discuss it openly. My wife seems to appreciate how I bring up items like gags, dildos, vibrators (which are her favorite), and bondage (on the lighter side). However, I’m usually a few steps ahead of her while trying to introduce these elements in ways that don’t make her feel turned off or think I’m acting weird. Up until now, she has enjoyed what I’ve brought into our dynamic.