Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone,

My Domme and I bought a device two days ago, and I went into lock right away. It’s an exciting new chapter for us as we dive in with lots of reading, but there are many questions on our minds. Hopefully the seasoned experts here can help.

1. What is the recommended duration for that initial period? (No chafing or irritation so far; it feels comfortable.)
2. Should each release date be announced beforehand, kept secret to create a surprise?
3. How do you feel about feminizing the slave while he remains at home? If yes, what’s the reasoning?
4. Why is milking important, and which method works best?
5. Should the contract stipulate that the Domme may have sex with others? What if she isn’t interested in it?
6. Does corporal punishment help establish a D/s dynamic?
7. What are your thoughts on requiring a penis piercing? How about a tattoo?
8. Do you support the Domme letting other women know the slave is locked up?
9. What’s the consensus on taking photos and journaling or blogging the chastity journey?
10. How can we ensure this experience doesn’t just become another task for the Domme?

Thank you all in advance for your input!