Female led relationships discussion

So you have spent quite a while in this chastity world and your partner has joined in as well. This is obviously an excellent outcome, allowing both of you to reap the rewards of your locked state. Let’s explore these advantages Advantages for your partner – You are more submissive More willing to please Happy to support your partner Completely focused on what your partner wants and needs Providing more domestic help around the house Eager to pleasure her while denying yourself Advantages for you – Your sexual kink gets satisfied For most men, chastity is a sexual kink. It likely started as just that when introduced to partners. So even though she greatly appreciates your efforts, deep down she knows you are sexually motivated. Imagine the situation – you’ve been home all day, finished the chores, cooked dinner, drawn a bath, chilled some wine, and more. Your partner is heading home on a Friday night, and you’re ready to help her unwind and enjoy the weekend. Be honest: what else have you planned for that evening together? Are you aiming to give your partner as many orgasms as possible because she deserves all the pleasure you can offer, or something similar? What if you consider that maybe your partner doesn’t want anything sexual right now? What happens when she arrives home after a long, tiring day and loves what you’ve done but feels a sense of dread? The worry is that although you did everything, it was for a purpose—sexual pleasure. Perhaps instead of acting as her Goddess/Princess/Mistress etc., she just wants to walk into her home and relax without thinking about anything else except being able to stop and take stock. If she expects things to get sexual, the bath won’t be relaxing; it becomes shaving, exfoliating, and such. Preparations become pressures rather than relaxation. Why not offer a romance night instead? Plenty of kisses and snuggles with no other sexual contact intended. Let your partner know this as soon as they walk through the door so she feels less pressure to relax and enjoy herself. This approach is much more likely to earn you the appreciation you seek. Remember, in real life, receiving multiple orgasms at every opportunity isn’t always a woman’s top desire. Feeling loved and cared for ranks higher. So ask yourself: who is really getting the most pleasure from your actions? Originally posted on MJKHScotland