Female led relationships discussion

hi everyone! i need some guidance on a tricky question. what is the best way to let your KH know that it’s quite easy for you to sneak in an orgasm or two without being caught, even though you feel bad about doing so and would rather not cheat this way? I’m unsure of my next steps… should I just be straightforward and explain all the possible methods to my KH, or maybe propose a stricter form of chastity? I realize that sneaking off cheapens the service I provide and makes me worry that my KH isn’t truly holding power over me. I’d love to hear any thoughts you have! thank you!!