Female led relationships discussion

Could someone clarify this for me? Have we ever seen threads that are really driven by what the KH wants out of locking their boys or girls up, or not? In my equal opportunities world I take whichever gender suits lol. However, it’s hard to hear directly from KH about what they want or get from their partner’s chastity. I guess I am focusing on couples who live together. OK if there are 5 of you please join in xx Xx Wendy