Female led relationships discussion

Actually, there hasn’t been all that much riding:)

I get Mondays off and have been thinking about our upcoming trip to Spain. What should I wear, what can I expect from my husband BlueEyes/Admin? Then it hit me: we’ve actually crossed the 3-year anniversary of this lifestyle right this week. Three years down, and we are both still so thrilled!

The first year was quite experimental—sometimes scary, sometimes demanding—but I gradually found a style that fits best with “minimum effort,” “minimal tools and gadgets,” and “maximum mind-control.” That mix has been polished ever since, and honestly, I can’t see anything stopping us from continuing for many more years.

For the last two years, he hasn’t had any release, and his destiny suits him well now:) The numbness has fine-tuned my approach. Aside from the obvious frustration visible in his eyes when I make him perform yet feel nothing, I also sense a very proud husband who gets satisfaction knowing he gave everything up for me.

The truth is, I wouldn’t keep him locked if I didn’t know it’s exactly what he wants deep down.

Oh, how many times has he told me he never saw this coming? He used to be caught in the common male fantasy that this lifestyle would bring more sex and action for him.

I must admit, I’m the one reaping the benefits, sexually as well as in a dozen other areas.

Maybe I don’t repay him enough, but it’s hard giving when you’re constantly being served and pampered;-)

He is an oral expert; I’d say he ranks right up there with Anne. Goodness, I’ve turned naughty!

Intercourse is declining on the other hand, but that seems to be what other ladies have noticed too. When oral sex is THAT good, who needs more? Well, I still enjoy riding him occasionally… He’s well-endowed, so it would be a shame not to use it;-)

He remains my MAN after all;-)

Anne is still part of our dynamic - reaching three years is another major milestone in itself.

I hope I never have to write that things cracked and broke! But frankly, I don’t see that happening to us.

At the same time, I don’t think we’ll evolve much further. We are at a good spot now.

No need or desire to move beyond this point really… Plenty of room for pleasant intriguing explorations and endless serving/pampering within these bounds I believe.-)

Now, off to do some shopping…:) Lady De