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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi everyone, Before we dive in, here’s a bit about me. I’ve been with my girlfriend for roughly ten years. She’s pretty vanilla, while I have somewhat of a…

member_ae295623ef 5 Sept 2026 #1

Hi everyone,

Before we dive in, here’s a bit about me. I’ve been with my girlfriend for roughly ten years. She’s pretty vanilla, while I have somewhat of a perverted side. Recently, I introduced her to T&D (Torture & Domination), and she seemed to like the concept—we even discussed doing the 1000 stroke challenge, though we haven’t set a start date yet. Anyway, my goal is to introduce her into chastity as well. My main question back in this topic:

Are there any experienced dommes (I know several are here) who would be open to chatting about the POSSIBILITY? I’m looking for theoretical discussion right now regarding helping her with decisions, timing, ideas, and clearing up doubts by sharing experiences. Essentially, providing direct support for every little concern that arises, perhaps via chat or WhatsApp rather than waiting on the forum replies.

Just a reminder: this is currently just conversation; nothing too serious.