Female led relationships discussion

I am keen and ready to have my lover snap the lock shut for the first time, but I remain new to the chastity experience because I serve a reluctant mistress. Who has it worse—those of you writhing in exquisite discomfort or I who may not realize what my imagination dreams?

I showed her the device while wearing it, but she didn’t seem to understand why I would want this for myself and was worried about physical harm. I tinkered with several inexpensive devices to satisfy my own concerns, and I have thoughts on allowing periods of freedom without orgasm so that blood flow remains proper and muscle memory is retained. My interest lies in ceding control to my lover rather than altering shape or function.

Though not living it currently, I intend to keep pleading for my desires. Until then, I would like to share vicariously if you will indulge me.

My first contribution is a tether of my own design. Having read comments about how easy it can be to pull out sometimes, that won’t happen with this simple pictured tether. It seems harder to defeat the lock or device than this cable in place. Simple and relatively cheap to make, quite comfortable once I made it snugger so it wouldn’t slide back over my hips. I appreciate the reverse cupping pressure which creates stimulation (if tolerable long-term) and prevents your member from getting a “running start” away from you, thereby decreasing chances of release through the device. You get only the length from point of contact. Using the widest base piece allows max circulation since there’s no fear of pulling back.

Enjoy.