Female led relationships discussion

I haven’t been around in a while, so I likely won’t recognize many of you. My departure was more about my wife and me navigating some difficult decisions and shifts in our relationship than anything happening on the site itself. I had cycled in and out of chastity for several years, enduring long periods without an orgasm, but it always felt like a game rather than a serious lifestyle commitment to us.

Last fall was particularly tough for my wife for reasons that became clear later, exposing many weaknesses in our D/s dynamic. Our relationship began to fracture, leaving both of us feeling down and frustrated.

On January 2nd, we shared an old-fashioned romantic evening of sex, much like before we adopted this lifestyle. The following day, while we agreed it was lovely, we also felt that it somehow betrayed the chosen path—one honest about being the very thing that saved our marriage and brought us more joy than ever.

Over the next month or so, I realized my conduct had been terrible. My wife told me she hoped I savored my orgasm on 1/2 because it might be my last for a long time—or perhaps forever. To ensure this, she insisted I stay in my Watchful Mistress cage with its security screw and ordered the punishment pins they sell. She wanted not just no more orgasms or erections from me, but pain when I did try to get hard, hoping I would eventually accept that sexual pleasure was over for me.

That was nearly three months ago. I am still going a bit crazy but remain dedicated to her happiness. She has never been happier or more satisfied than she is now. Fingers crossed things continue to improve.