Female led relationships discussion

I’ve dabbled in kink intermittently over the years and consider myself a kinkster who occasionally dips into D/s dynamics. I met this amazing woman with whom I connect on every level, yet she is quite vanilla (still a virgin, holds traditional views like waiting for marriage to have sex). She isn’t prudish; she just hasn’t had these experiences and remains curious about sexuality. I’ve shared some of my BDSM background—not going into excessive detail—and she takes it in stride.

Has anyone else gone from a vanilla lifestyle to the kink world, whether mild or hardcore? I’d love to hear your stories, see blogs, read articles, etc. Please share realistic accounts rather than just titillating content. She often mentions that she prefers being in charge, so Dominant seems like her likely role.