Female led relationships discussion
My partner and I have finally decided to give this a shot. A few months back, I was unsure, but not anymore now. We needed to run through a couple of…
My partner and I have finally decided to give this a shot. A few months back, I was unsure, but not anymore now. We needed to run through a couple of 24-hour periods to see how it held up while I wore it at work. My workplace is arguably one of the worst places in the world for wearing one. Anyway, I’m wrapping up day three, which triples my previous longest time ever. She did her homework online and with some books. As mentioned elsewhere, we both have strong alpha traits, so we usually make things work by having one submit to the other at any given moment. Honestly, it’s quite easy for me because I love her and would do anything to keep her happy. Plus, in our household dynamic, she essentially calls the shots while I mostly enforce them.
I really appreciated all the feedback when I shared my worries a little while ago. Pictures are coming soon, and she’ll be joining us here too. We drafted up a decent agreement: we chose a three-month trial period during which she can extend it by another three months if things go well. If we both like how it’s going afterward, we’ll tweak the contract for a much longer commitment.
I built a new larger metal ring and polished it so now the device fits much better. It stays snug but doesn’t hurt unless I get really hard; even then, the pain goes away quickly this time around with no discoloration. I think I might fabricate more parts down the line. Thanks again for all the support! Now back to work!