Female led relationships discussion

Hi there,

We are a couple where I am in my late forties and my kh/wife is ten years younger. A few years back, we gradually shifted towards an FLR dynamic. We soon incorporated chastity into the mix, which she really enjoyed as a result. Consequently, she began increasing how often I wear the cage continuously, while reducing the number of days with freedom from it; however, we are still quite new to this lifestyle.

She is becoming stricter yet remains loving and caring. I am permitted to have an orgasm, just not as frequently as I would prefer.

Last week, I begged my wife for permission to climax. Slightly irritated by my persistence, she remarked: “you had 24 orgasms until now in 2016. For many people, that is more than enough for a whole year, and not everyone gets so lucky.” She mentioned this to a friend and quickly received the following reply: “24 over a full year means there are at least 12 too many. 24 within just six months!!! That really shouldn’t happen. At most, he should be allowed between 5-7 during this season of the year.” I tried to argue that it is merely one person’s opinion, but she went on: “I want you to write to the bloggers we follow, telling them about our situation and asking for their view. Then bring me back their answers so I can decide how best to proceed with you for the rest of the year.”

Please be kind enough to share your short thoughts on this matter and help me complete this somewhat humiliating task.

Thank you