Female led relationships discussion

HELP--- I need Suggestions, I** am having trouble with my subbie. So please any suggestions or advice on punishment or thoughts on how to handle a man like this would be appreciated. My subbie and I are in a supposed “24/7 lifestyle”, yet outside the home, he is in a very macho position. He is also a warVet, hence he has PTSD. So he tends to bring home some of the PTSD issues or when returning from an outside event, he has a Macho attitude, Most days he wants a stern Mistress, then some days he is declaring he is not a subbie! hes a switch (ha ha) then doing things that are causing us to fight This is driving miss daisy crazy know what I mean! When he does this I call it “Showing his ass” I know that I am more giving than most Mistress’s, as well as more giving than I want to. But, due to his PTSD from the war, I give him space, because part of PTSD is parnoia and in trying to understand that, I insure: He has own space(a room) His own personal computer His own bank accounts and he handles them(tries to) He has only 2-3 chores a day But, I think maybe I am being to easy, as he is always challenging me! and I find him showing his ass more and more often, this switch stuff is insane nor do I want to switch. any thoughts? … all input would surely do nothing but help I hope Love to all **; [[Image: new mistresswhip signatureaa.jpg]](the referenced community page)