Female led relationships discussion

I have a routine I do with my submissive partner. At night in bed, he rests his hands on top of his head and spreads his legs wide. I reach down between them to start squeezing and tormenting his testicles. He wriggles as I continue the pain. It feels great holding one ball tight between my thumb and forefinger until he groans and shrinks from the ache. Should he drop his hands off his head or clamp his knees shut to escape, I extend his ‘Chastity Time’ as a penalty. I enjoy pushing him into real distress with moans of pain. My favorite part is ramping up the hurt right before his allowed orgasm date—just one or two days left—to tempt him into breaking my rules.