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My Mistress/Wife told me last night that she wants more control and asked me for ideas on what that should be. Here are some details about where we are…

member_cd28194514 6 Sept 2026 #1

My Mistress/Wife told me last night that she wants more control and asked me for ideas on what that should be. Here are some details about where we are right now:

  • We are what I consider full FLR with some Femdom as well which has been going on for almost a year now.
  • I’m locked and my next orgasm won’t be until New Year’s.
  • She orgasms almost daily from oral or her toys.
  • She buys the clothes I wear.
  • I am given a cash allowance weekly and not allowed to use a credit card unless it’s an emergency.
  • I do all of the household chores, serve her breakfast in bed daily and make her bed every day.
  • I am not allowed to have an alcoholic drink unless I’m in her presence and she limits me as to how many I can have.
  • She controls the TV and where I sleep (which is usually at her feet or on the floor).
  • We have stumbled on to light feminization. I’m wearing panties frequently with a pantie liner, painted toes, a toe ring and I’m to wear women’s perfume.Most recently has given me a woman’s name which she calls me on occasion.
  • She has taken some control of my free time but not all of it.
  • When we go out for a date night she chooses the place we go and what I am allowed to eat and drink which she orders. So her question is what else should and can she be controlling?