Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve been using a Mature Metals Jail Bird for several months now, and it feels very practical. It’s as comfortable as you’d expect from a heavy piece of steel suspended above your genitals. When Pinkie (my Domme) ordered her cage, we measured my flaccid length at 2 inches and went with that size. The one thing I’ve noticed is there’s usually some extra room at the back end when it’s soft, but this space disappears quickly once an erection starts.

It seems like a normal situation, although ‘normal’ might not really apply to us. I’m craving a tighter cage. When Pinkie teases me up, my cock does get hard, and she loves watching it bulge out of the bars. Personally, I’ve developed a strong preference for a shorter cage that offers little to no room for expansion; I want Pinkie to laugh even louder when she sees my member held down at about an inch and a half. I enjoy the discomfort and occasional pain during erections, so I imagine a very short cage will amplify those sensations. I also really want to see my cock confined as tiny as possible, perhaps even permanently shortened. While nothing I’ve read proves that caging actually shrinks it for good, I’m happy with just forcing my penis to stay at its smallest while locked.

That’s the gist of it. I’d love to hear thoughts from both men and women here. Your shared experiences are always helpful. RP