Introductions discussion

I’m still getting the hang of tease and denial, as well as chastity. My previous relationships were pretty standard, honestly. I usually kept my mouth shut when it came to sex and held back from anything that felt too unconventional.

Nicoftime was open about his submissive side early on in our time together; yet, because I didn’t know much then, I missed the full picture of what he meant. He brought it up again in May, explaining how tease and denial are big for him. That’s also when he mentioned buying a cage and hoping I’d hold the key back.

I was genuinely daunted at first, but my love for him made me willing to give anything a shot if it mattered to him.

Since that moment, I’ve dove into blogs and picked up some erotic stories. I feel like I really own this keyholder role now. Tease and denial (mostly behind closed doors) have built a strong base for us and improved our communication more than ever before. I’m exploring my own suppressed urges and stepping out of my comfort zone to try new things, leading to better sexual fulfillment than ever. While I don’t see myself quitting this path we’re on just yet, there’s still so much ground to cover. Excited to share (parts of) our story here.