Female led relationships discussion

I wasn’t entirely certain about the right spot for this, so I suppose I’ll just leave it here:) This contribution was inspired by an event from last week that made me want to share my thoughts. A frequent observation is a BDSM connection or dynamic developing where the dominant and submissive parties seem to be operating on entirely different wavelengths regarding what works and what doesn’t. I know many people are diligent about establishing boundaries, yet details can slip away—whether it’s something you forgot to bring up (perhaps you dislike having your testicles squeezed but now they’re being crushed) or a point you did mention but the dominant has since forgotten. Here is a list I discovered and then significantly tweaked to satisfy my organizational OCD. I’ve lost track of the original source, so if anyone knows where it originated PLEASE tell me so I can give proper credit. The file is in Excel format, so you’ll need that program to open it (I cannot verify compatibility with OpenOffice or other spreadsheet apps). It’s a collaborative project; if you spot something missing, please post here or send me a PM so I can incorporate it and update the sheet.:) Fetlist