Female led relationships discussion

Amante’ has chosen to let me share our pact with cm. Our Ten Rules

1. Your safety, both physically and emotionally, will always be a priority. My submission is a gift that I treasure. You have granted me the safe word “Banana.” If things become too intense or overwhelming, you may use this word without facing punishment or humiliation. Similarly, I promise never to withhold my affection as a penalty. However, you must accept all corrections and punishments given by me. As your Domme, any correction serves only to better train you for your role and meet my expectations. Trust is vital in our bond; you can rely on me not to endanger you or break your hard limits. If physical needs require removing the cage or abstaining from sex, your request will never be questioned. You must also tell me if your energy levels are low enough to impact how well you serve. Communication should remain clear and honest.
2. Share your wants and needs; however, I may decide that a reward isn’t due yet or that the “reward of your fantasy” hasn’t been earned at that moment. Cumming is not automatic just because you want it. If your requests come across as rude or demanding, they will be denied along with punishment. Penalties can include spankings, ruined orgasms, extended cage time, or continued abstinence.
3. Care for my penis and keep the hair trimmed. My belongings belong to me, and I like them kept in perfect condition. If your new cage feels tighter, you may take it off periodically for cleaning and grooming, as before. But if that time is used for self-pleasure instead of care, a punishment follows, and future grooming must happen under my direct watch.
4. Do not touch my penis without explicit permission when I am away (except for grooming or using the restroom). Even with permission to touch, you cannot cum unless explicitly allowed. Follow all instructions carefully regarding toys, contact methods, and technique.
5. Your main job is pleasing me as your Domme. Worship my body and pussy especially, licking and playing with them eagerly when given the chance. Also worship my ass, showing hunger for both through vigorous attention. Only after I am satisfied will you be allowed to orgasm. This choice rests solely with me; do not beg. Let pleasure-seeking drive your actions—foot kissing, massages, painting nails—but remember this isn’t a test. Ask if unsure what pleases me most.
6. While daily attire is up to you, I state my preferences as needed. When instructed to wear specific items (like panties, lingerie, or collar), comply without complaint. Verify your clothing and cage via person or photo messages when necessary. Provide proof of acts or states promptly during workdays (no strict deadlines) and in a timely manner on off-days.
7. Show appreciation for attention received, whether it comes as punishment or pleasure. Regular spankings help bring us closer; these are gentle, intimate touches that may include an orgasm and my comfort afterward.
8. Obedience must be complete (100%). Follow directions inside and outside the bedroom. You will receive a key reserved for emergencies only. Present this key for inspection whenever I demand it. (Edit…I agreed that emergency key will be locked away, she has combination to lock)
9. On mornings and nights we spend together, pleasure me before rising or sleeping. The method may vary based on circumstance. When apart during these times, greet me in the morning (medium your choice) and say goodnight (medium your choice). Failure results in punishment.
10. At home and in “non-vanilla” settings, call me Mistress or Amanté, including texts. In “vanilla” situations, using my name reinforces submission.