Female led relationships discussion

Several months back, I came here seeking guidance on how to approach my wife about taking charge of our relationship in a female-led dynamic. It was something I’d kept in mind for nearly two decades throughout our marriage. The feedback proved helpful, so I finally broached the subject despite feeling surprisingly anxious even though we share an excellent bond and communicate openly. She listened carefully, and we started discussing FLR. Real-world FLR differs greatly from the idealized version—it demands serious effort on my part:), yet I truly wouldn’t trade it. Everything has shifted rapidly, and perhaps another thread will highlight what’s working so well in such a short time. (You really must be fully committed to discovering this path and meeting her needs) LAST NIGHT, the transformation struck me again. After intimacy and cuddling next to my wife—her term for snuggling—and with her drifting off after orgasm while I remained holding back, which has become standard. ME: teasing (perhaps not entirely) “I really wanted to release tonight; maybe you could allow myself-masturbation this week.” HER: No way. That chapter is closed for good. ME: Sigh HER: “I know how much you enjoy it—the intimacy, the extra attention, the teasing, all the sex and more.” (She’s growing sleepier)

ME: “Except for release.” HER: (Smiling directly into my eyes) …No love, that part belongs to me now. She kisses me, turns over, and falls asleep. I truly cherish this life…I believe.