Female led relationships discussion

After @Nicoftime opened my eyes to the D/s dynamic and male chastity, I dove into research. I collected insights from across the web, discussed our hard boundaries, and clarified what we each needed. It felt like everything was clicking. We spent as much time together as possible, keeping our roles distinct especially in private. I issued requests which he followed, introduced spankings to reinforce good behavior. The setup has shifted slightly now that @Nicoftime stays with me for 5-6 nights before returning to his own place for two. We get along great and are spending more time at home than usual, filling each other’s days outside of work hours. However, I’ve noticed a dip in consistency. I’ll text him about the punishment he’s getting for breaking a rule, but by the time he returns and we’re together, I sometimes forget to enforce it. I realize my responsibilities are slipping, which isn’t fair either way. I’m fully dedicated to this lifestyle and us. Does anyone else experience these lapses in routine when life gets hectic?