Female led relationships discussion

I feel incredibly fortunate that @MistressG has kept me locked in my HT2s around the clock, with anti-pullout features, ever since late August. She also recently bought a lovely strap-on harness from Sh, featuring an emasculating 7” cock. She pegged me for the first time last night using it. In its current state, I don’t think my small locked penis qualifies as a true cock; it feels too masculine for what it is now. I’m curious: what do Dommes, KHs, and subs prefer to call their bits these days?