Female led relationships discussion

Do other mistresses feel like they forget to keep the Dom mindset contained within their subs, letting it spill out into how they treat everyone else? I felt myself slipping into that mode at work today while debating whether seeing two people is dating or cheating. My conversation partner (he’s a guy) thought there was nothing wrong with doing both. It nearly sent me over the edge and I gave him full “Dom” treatment:smilies_xxx22:. You know, the vibe of ‘you’re totally off base, admit it, or suffer the consequences’…Then I remembered he’s just a colleague who might not take kindly to being whipped for his stubbornness.:spankwhip: Has anyone else experienced this? Lady