Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Before I dive in, I KNOW Locked Boy is going to whine and moan about not being allowed to view this thread, lol! So Locked Boy and I played a game yesterday. I uncaged him for a 45 minute tv show. The deal was if he came before the end (he is VERY good at holding off an orgasm) then he would be locked for 10 days, if he could hold off the whole 45 minutes, then he could have his way with me - aggressively. Keep in mind before all this began, he was Dominant and I was submissive. Well, I didn’t like the idea of being Dominated again, so I pulled out all the stops and he came before the end of the show. 10 day lockup for him. Now here is my dilemma. Once we start playing I almost never have the strength to leave him in the cage. Our longest lock up was 11 days! And that was BEFORE the PA! I am ready to get back into this full-force, it’s just my resolve sucks. What is a PIV-loving lady to do when I want the real thing?! I guess now is a good time to test out the new dildo I got from amazon, lol!