Female led relationships discussion

I was just thinking I’d check in with you all and anyone who wants to comment, can. About a month and a half ago I started driving a cab. With a PhD in the humanities, it seems logical, right? I couldn’t imagine being locked up while ferrying intoxicated U.S. Marines back to their base, so I avoided that fate. That job didn’t work out, however, so now I’m doing landscaping, and I REALLY can’t picture myself caged while wielding a shovel and power tools. But today there is no work and rain is forecast for the weekend, meaning more time off, yet I see myself wearing my lock when my wife is at her job. Flexibility feels important to me. Without getting too detailed, so many things have been going poorly in my life lately, leaving me miserable enough that Mistress didn’t have the heart to cage or spank me, and neither did I. So we put those activities on hold for a bit. I believe I’ve read several authors on FLR who note that a certain level of happiness is necessary for submission to be enjoyable and sustainable. Of course, it may not always be fun; perhaps some difficulty is part of the growth process. However, if there is too much misery, maybe we need breaks from intense submission. Anyone agree? On another note, I was struggling with ED. So I tried Viagra, which works wonders. Yet I’ve noticed that even without taking Viagra or horny goat weed and other natural supplements, the physical labor I’m doing produces AMAZING erections for Mistress’s pleasure. I read somewhere that intense physical activity or gym workouts boost testosterone enough to reverse ED without medication. That seems true for me. The irony is that while my penis is huge and hard, I am sometimes too exhausted to do anything about it! In those moments, Mistress takes the top position, which suits me fine anyway. My wife is such a kind, Vanilla Dominatrix. She will never date another man without my approval (it hasn’t happened yet and might not because we are both quite selective), and when I am feeling low, there is no physical punishment. But when my mind is strong, I welcome her correction. I love it when she reminds me who is the boss…it feels so romantic and exciting! I have a medium-sized penis and I am proud of that fact. Most men measure 4-6 inches after all. Should we lament our fate? I don’t think so. Many women find plenty of satisfaction with a medium cock, and some can even manage well with one smaller than average. I’m not in chastity for humiliation or orgasm denial or because my dick isn’t big enough; I am here to prevent utterly useless and unproductive masturbation. MY PENIS BELONGS TO MISTRESS KIM. Today My Queen will put me in chastity before she heads off to work, and I will peacefully write my book. Happy Thanksgiving to all of my brothers in chastity, and to their beloved key-holders!