Female led relationships discussion

After reading @Thatgirl’s reply about the Pavlok, I asked Mrs. F to get me one for Christmas. She actually surprised me with it; I didn’t expect her to be on board. My main goal right now is to build an aversion to porn since that has been a persistent problem. Later down the line, I plan to improve my personal focus at work.

First off, after charging the device as instructed, I had some trouble getting it to pair initially—a necessary step for the first firmware update to function properly. It held up from Christmas morning until roughly the same time the next day when it became totally unresponsive. I followed the Pavlok website’s instructions and let the battery drain overnight before trying to charge it again. (The recovery took longer than their optimistic 4-5 hour estimate, which was my first attempt.) Eventually, it accepted a charge, allowing me to re-pair it with my phone.

I experimented with the intensity levels at first. It defaults to 30%, which felt weak to me. I quickly cranked it up to 100%; this grabs your attention but doesn’t last as long as you might hope. On Christmas Day, after looking up a porn image of one of my favorite models, I got shocked once. I did the same thing on the morning of the 26th, right before the battery died.

Today, now that it was back in action, I decided to try positioning the plate against the underside of my scrotum while wearing the cage. Initially, the connection wasn’t great and it failed to deliver a shock. After a minute or two, I managed to get zapped at 100%. That time, it “got my attention” much more forcefully than the wrist shocks, though it wasn’t unbearable pain. About 30 seconds later, I gave myself another zap, closed the website where I had found the image, and put the device down.

While writing this post in a different thread, I started feeling a dull ache in both testicles, similar to having been moderately kicked. The sensation grew stronger over the next five to ten minutes. It’s now been nearly 30 minutes, and my balls are still throbbing somewhat. I can function normally, but they definitely have my attention.

I think I’ll use this placement for future shocks over the coming week because it seems more intense and certainly lasts longer than using the wrist. If I’m ever unlocked, I might try placing it on my glans or shaft at some point; while that would be impractical for general wear, I honestly can’t imagine it hurting worse than scrotum placement.

I suspect a dominant KH could use this as an effective training tool if she chooses to do so.

Looking forward to seeing what others have to say.