Female led relationships discussion

My wife had me come to bed without my cage last night, just as she asked. Once I settled in, she reached over and started messing with my member. After getting it nice and firm, she paused, mentioning she wanted a neck and shoulder massage before we proceeded further. Following roughly 30 minutes of that, I performed oral on her for about ten minutes. She declared herself ready for intercourse and indicated I should be the top position. We engaged in sex for around five minutes until she flipped me over; within thirty seconds of riding hard above me, she climaxed. Afterwards, she stood up, put her panties back on, and lay beside me with her head resting against my chest. She asked me to stroke her hair as I continued playing with it until dozing off. Once satisfied, she rolled over for sleep. By then, I had gone soft again and re-applied the cage. I spent the entire night awake with throbbing testicles. She is doing well. Her constant remark is simply: “Isn’t this what you wanted?” lol Please share if your experiences are similar too. Oh yes, that desensitizing spray did its job when I applied ten full sprays!