Female led relationships discussion

I’ve spent years experimenting with cages while holding the key myself. Over recent months, my wife and I have dabbled in chastity together until she decided to step back (my fault for realizing this during my intro post in the foyer). We’ve had some solid talks since then, and she’s ready to resume short-term lockups. I’m thrilled—not just willing, but genuinely excited—about her participation. After considering our discussions, she told me she’ll take charge of the keys once she feels prepared or motivated to play. Until that moment arrives, I don’t wear the cage; it stays in its drawer when I start to protest and see her smile widen as she says, “Leave it there if you want a chance at all.” Call me odd, but this is quite difficult for me. After years of self-wearing, I’ve grown accustomed to it—and miss not wearing the cage. I hope we get back into it soon because I really do long for my device. It seems clear she enjoys controlling things and teasing what I desire while remaining mostly vanilla.