Female led relationships discussion
Over the past eight months, I've put in a lot of effort to establish a thriving FLR after being married for sixteen years. Not everyone here is looking for…
Over the past eight months, I’ve put in a lot of effort to establish a thriving FLR after being married for sixteen years. Not everyone here is looking for an FLR, but it was my absolute goal from day one. Eight months ago, my wife had no idea what FLR meant; now, she let me orgasm last December 24th (my Christmas gift) and promised to keep me waiting until Valentine’s Day, though she wasn’t entirely certain about that guarantee. Since she enjoys frequent orgasms herself, the wait can be tough, but I’ve learned to prioritize her pleasure.
I’m interested in what other duties a submissive partner has within their relationship. In my view, a consistent routine is key to sustaining an FLR long-term. Below are the tasks I am currently required to handle daily; I’d love to see how others manage theirs. It’s worth noting that I’ve customized TRELLO for us, making it incredibly simple for my wife to oversee everything. This has elevated our dynamic because she can easily assign chores, monitor today’s progress, and add errands like grocery runs if needed. If anyone is interested, I can post some screenshots too. Additionally, every evening ends with me kneeling while she sits on the couch; we review what I’ve accomplished and discuss any potential obstacles to tomorrow’s tasks (like work schedules or kid-related issues) when they will be completed.
MORNING SCHEDULE *Wake my son up and get him ready for school. *Rouse my wife – usually about 30 minutes after I wake. *Brew coffee so she can have it within five minutes of waking (she loves her coffee). *Mix up her morning smoothie and keep it in the fridge. *Prepare her daily water bottle (a mix of Bai and water) and store it in the fridge. *Tidy the kitchen before heading out. *Make the bed. *Load my wife’s things into her car for work and pull the vehicle from the garage. *Kiss her feet every morning before leaving for work.
EVENING SCHEDULE *Maintain laundry duties, including folding. *Cook dinner and clean up all dishes (I enjoy cooking). *Sweep the kitchen floor. *Wipe down bathroom counters so they are spotless for the next day. *Empty and tidy the car after the day’s use. *Walk through the house straightening living areas. *Tackle daily chores from the chore list (varies each day). *Bath setup when she signals readiness. *Routine foot rub before bed. *Help select her clothes and shoes for tomorrow – clean them if necessary.
They say be careful what you wish for, and some days I really feel that. Yet, there is something appealing about my wife working out upstairs or relaxing while I run around the house ensuring everything is EXACTLY how she likes it. No complaints from me; truthfully, I get punished if I complain. Life is good…and busy!:)
What strategies are you using in your FLR that work well?