Female led relationships discussion

I developed an interest in chastity and bondage quite early on, yet I lacked the courage to place myself under one when I was eighteen (which is considered adulthood here in Germany). Since my situation involved living with my parents in the same house without a key holder present, I remained single and maintained my chastity. It seems inevitable that my parents will discover this secret eventually. In my view, I have wasted considerable time because it took several more years for me to get my first device. Should a man residing at his parents’ home begin using one while still single? If the relationship with his parents is good, should he inform them?

I ask these questions because I believe many young men feel ashamed of their sexuality and end up wasting time waiting for nothing.