Female led relationships discussion

Like I said before, for us, being in chastity isn’t a religion or an obsession; it’s just one of many tools we use to add some zest to our sexual life. But unlike other things we’ve tried, my wife feels a real pull towards power dynamics. Before now, two weeks was the longest either of us had gone without release, and when that orgasm finally came, it felt incredible. So, both of us benefited from the experience.

This is the fourth weekend under strict chastity (with only short weekly pauses for hygiene checks and her own orgasms), which is double what we’ve done before and much more frustrating than ever. She already enjoyed herself a few times this weekend and openly warned me that if I couldn’t hold back and ejaculated, she’d keep me locked up for another three weeks. Honestly, I admitted I’d prefer to have my penis pierced rather than endure another three weeks in this tormenting device. So while she was enjoying her pleasure, I focused hard on not coming.

This afternoon, she announced we were going to “fuck and if you come so be it.” I eagerly undressed, climbed into bed, and lay on my back since she usually tops me. She asked what I was doing, and I told her I was doing exactly as she requested. She said no, I wasn’t; I had just said we would fuck. That’s when I noticed the strap-on behind her back. Sure enough, she used it on me. Honestly, I believe her goal wasn’t really to get pleasure herself or give it to me, but to further assert her dominance over me. After ten minutes, she declared that was sufficient and promised to release me next weekend if I continue behaving well. You can bet I will be my best self. I know she’ll likely let me out since this has always been a mutual agreement, but I don’t think she’ll ever completely give up her power.