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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I'm likely to turn this into a poll, but I also want to hear your thoughts on how feasible it is. Do you believe one can stop wearing the cage and leave…

member_18b4bf4474 7 Sept 2026 #1

I’m likely to turn this into a poll, but I also want to hear your thoughts on how feasible it is. Do you believe one can stop wearing the cage and leave behind all the femdom aspects of the lifestyle that accompany it, only to restart later? Or do you feel that once sexual dominance returns, it would be impossible or at least very unlikely for our KH to ever resume her role as Dominant? (And please - I mean quitting willingly. Not because necessity forced us to take it off temporarily for some external reason. That’s a totally different situation.) I think this might play out differently for guys who find the cage/denial inherently arousing on their own. If you’ve always longed to wear the cage just for its own sake, even without a KH or if your partner wasn’t actively participating, then I believe we’re looking at it from a different angle. There’s no denying its central importance; it is indeed an arousal trigger in itself within the broader dynamic. But personally, I see the cage primarily as a tool to support her dominance, which is the specific aspect of chastity I’m focusing on here. None of our current setup works without the cage for us. However, if we decide that continuing down this road of developing her dominance and my submission sexually isn’t wise, the cage would stop being relevant after that point. I’d love to hear from everyone who has an opinion on this. But I’m especially keen to hear from any men who have decided - despite discovering how much they enjoy receiving female sexual dominance (or perhaps specifically because of it) - that stopping further was best for them. And if you did stop, did you ever try again? Or was the femdom experiment permanently ruined?