Female led relationships discussion

Now that I have introduced my wife to chastity and really enjoy it, I want to introduce her to FLR. I’m a bit more kinky than my wife (maybe quite a bit more, since this whole thing was my idea) but if she would let me, I would kiss the ground she walks on. I love pleasing her, massaging and kissing her feet, giving her oral sex, and just generally worshipping her. However, I don’t think she fully realizes it yet; sometimes she gets annoyed by the sexual and non-sexual attention I give her. I want her to take charge in our relationship. I want her to use her new power over me and my orgasms for her benefit both inside and outside the bedroom. What is the best way to do this? Are there any good books for FLR beginners? Any good websites or blogs besides this one? (I like having this place here, but she isn’t a forum person.) I don’t want something that dives into really weird kinks, like wearing women’s clothes or anything similar. I’m sure one day I will regret giving her so much power over me, but right now this is what I want.