Female led relationships discussion

My wife is a beautiful and wonderful person . She has opened up and is really getting in tune with her sexuality. We had a wonderful weekend full of sex, oral sex and teasing. Sunday morning she woke my by rubbing my cage and tugging on my panties. She said she was ready . I reached in the nightstand drawer and Graber her pair of vibratory. I went to work on her clothes and outer labia. It took a little longer than normal but she had an earth shaking orgasom. It lasted forever . I layer beside her waiting for her to come back down when she did I started to remove her panties and she asked what I was doing . I said usually after that you are ready for sex? She said that she had all she could take for awhile . I rolled over frustrated. She just patted my throwing cage. I had a huge wet spot on the front of my panties. She said it looked like I enjoyed as much as she did and I should be good for awhile too. The part that worries me is this is that last week before her period and when she is on her period I never get unlocked. She let me kiss her panties before I had to leave for work and I could smell how hot she was so I asked if she wanted sex jokingly. She said no ill be good for a while . She laughed as I walked to the bathroom cage sticking strait out stretching my panties to the max. She always reminds me that’s what you want isn’t it, to be denied. I just have to smile and say yes while my caged cock screems no. I love her and her hot body so much I just don’t know how I’m going to handle another two week lockup if it comes to it!!