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I know not everyone is into FLR but I have worked extremely hard to have our relationship work this way over the last twelve months. Actually, the first…

member_e3c5a36ef9 7 Sept 2026 #1

I know not everyone is into FLR but I have worked extremely hard to have our relationship work this way over the last twelve months. Actually, the first post I ever posted in here was the night I was going to speak with my wife about wanting this lifestyle. My goal since then as her submissive has been to make it as easy on her as possible to accept the lifestyle and obtain the most benefit with the least amount of effort. We have been working on a system for her to get everything done she wants. I know some people do not like systems but my mind works that way and it has been working INCREDIBLY WELL. My life is totally different than it was twelve months ago. We set up a schedule on TRELLO (free project management software) and each item is pre-signed with punishment minutes. Anything not done the way she likes and I already know how much time is going to be added. This has been working extremely well for the last couple of months. She no longer has to do anything. She also adds minutes for behavior or anything not working the way she wants. I text her every morning with my current punish minutes, next scheduled O and asking her to text me any additional tasks that she wants done. She simply texts new requests and I put them in trello which she can track from her phone or add additional comments. Anything not done or tracked is additional time. I have to go over with her daily what was done and then weekly we go over the entire schedule, if I miss the check in, then more time. We set up the system to revolve entirely around me being responsible for maintaining my tasks and then checking in with her is still my responsibility. We set up a google dropcam in an extra room and this is the corner time room. She can watch me from her phone anywhere she is at. We purchased a sensory deprivation hood and that is where I pay back the time I owe on the weekend. For example, today I spent two hours mainly for an outburst I had about her sister. Tied with my hands bound and earphones playing white noise and the sensory deprivation hood, time goes extremely slow and I do not look forward to it. She said that is the point and she has been very happy with the effort and attitude she is seeing from me. She said my NEW HOBBY is now her and we are working together to give her the most amount of freedom from the mundane tasks that she is no longer interested in doing. I can trade one hour of corner time for one extra day to my O day. She has scheduled eight “O” days for the year but I hate the corner time so I have been pushing out my O day. A few weeks ago she was nice enough to let me sleep on the floor naked next to her in our bed instead of adding more time to my “O” day. We have been using a holy trainer but she wanted more full-time wear so I just ordered a Jail Bird based on all the great posts in this forum. Just wanted to share our system that has been working well for us. I love the feeling of being under her power and authority and this system allows me to kind of live it 24/7. She also has been rewarding me when she is happy with daily routines that allow me to truly serve her and get the FEMDOM part of my mind fulfilled. (This has been amazing and I could do another whole post on this) What do they say, be careful what you ask for. Actually I love this lifestyle and she is truly starting to enjoy her role as well. Thanks for all the great posts in this forum, it has really helped me with ideas and to see what others are doing that’s working for them. Keep the great posts coming, I find myself constantly reading everything in this forum. Have a great week!